exposure and response prevention for obsessive-compulsive disorder

ERP Therapy for OCD in Philadelphia, PA

Understanding why you’re anxious isn’t getting you anywhere. Instead, therapy is making you feel worse. 

After all of the processing, you’re still feeling trapped in your own thoughts.

Maybe you…

  • Wash your hands so much that they are cracked and bleeding.

  • Avoid cuddling with your kid because you’re scared you’ll hurt them.

  • Sabotage your relationships because you keep finding things wrong with your partner.

  • Replay past events in your head, looking for ways to make yourself feel better.

  • Seek reassurance from your spouse on whether you’re a good person.

  • Check the appliances a certain amount of times before leaving for work, to the point of being frequently late.

You’re frustrated because a part of you knows that your fears aren’t real, but you can’t let go of the possibility that they could come true. 

Maybe you’ve been diagnosed with OCD and have been recommended Exposure and Response Prevention therapy. You’re slightly skeptical, and maybe even a little nervous about trying it. Or, maybe you've landed here while researching for yourself, and are questioning if you’re dealing with compulsions. Either way, you’re also tired of not getting better and are open to a new approach.

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What Is Exposure and Response Prevention Therapy?

  • Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is a specialized form of behavior therapy designed specifically for treating OCD. Unlike traditional talk therapy, ERP therapy involves experiential exercises that help you practice facing your fears without using compulsive behaviors nor avoidance tactics to cope. 

    The treatment works through two essential components:

    Exposure Exercises: Gradually confronting situations, thoughts, or stimuli that trigger your obsessive thoughts both in a supportive environment, either in the therapy office or over telehealth. 

    Response Prevention: Learning to resist performing compulsive rituals or behaviors that you typically use to reduce anxiety.

    Over time, your brain learns that your fears aren’t reality,  and your anxiety naturally decreases over time. Research shows that 60-80% of individuals who complete ERP therapy experience significant reduction in OCD symptoms.

  • My approach to treating OCD through Exposure and Response Prevention is collaborative and identity-affirming. ERP can be an emotionally activating process, so it’s important  you’re completely on board with every step of the process. 

    Initial Assessment and Planning

    During our first session, we'll explore your specific obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors.  I'll conduct a thorough assessment to understand how OCD symptoms impact your life. Together, we'll create an exposure list – a personalized roadmap ranking your fears from least to most challenging.

    The ERP Process

    Our weekly therapy sessions provide consistent support as you practice exposure exercises both in session and through homework between meetings. The typical course of treatment involves:

    • Building Foundation Skills: Understanding how OCD works and preparing for exposure work

    • Gradual Exposure: Starting with manageable challenges and progressively facing greater fears

    • Response Prevention Practice: Learning to tolerate distress without performing compulsions

    • Integration and Maintenance: Developing long-term strategies to maintain your progress

    Together, we’ll come up with specific ERP exercises tailored to your needs. I recommend meeting at least once per week for an hour for effective ERP. Some people benefit from extended 90-minute sessions or meeting more than once weekly during intensive exposure work.

  • ERP shows your brain that your worst fears won’t come true. Experiencing this realization over and over again will ultimately lessen your anxiety over time. It also rewires your brain so your anxious thoughts have less impact on your daily life. ERP also proves to you that your anxiety is manageable instead of something to avoid. 

    You’ll also learn how to be your own ERP coach if OCD flairs up in the future. You’ll know exactly what to do and how to cope.

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Specialized ERP for LGBTQ+ Individuals

As a queer therapist, I utilize an identify-affirming approach to ERP with LGBTQ+ individuals.

My practice offers:

  • Affirming Environment: A safe space where all aspects of your identity are welcomed and validated

  • Nuanced Understanding: Recognition that identity exploration is healthy and different from OCD-driven thoughts

  • Intersectional Approach: Addressing how OCD interacts with coming out, transition, and queer relationships

  • Collaborative Care: We’ll come up with exposure exercises together. Every step of the ERP will be discussed and led by you.

For trans and non-binary clients, I understand how OCD might latch onto questions about being "trans enough" or create obsessions around gender presentation. We can address these OCD symptoms while affirming your authentic identity.

Common OCD Presentations I Treat

Contamination OCD

Fear of germs, illness, or contamination leading to excessive washing, cleaning, or avoidance behaviors. ERP exercises involve gradual exposure to feared contaminants while preventing compulsive cleaning.

Relationship OCD

Constant doubts about relationships, love, or attraction. Through ERP therapy, you'll learn to sit with uncertainty about feelings without seeking reassurance or analyzing relationships.

Checking OCD

Compulsive checking of locks, appliances, or completed tasks. Treatment involves leaving situations without checking and learning to tolerate uncertainty about safety.

Identity-Related OCD

Intrusive thoughts about sexual orientation, gender identity, or personal values. We'll work on accepting uncertainty while distinguishing between genuine self-exploration and OCD-driven obsessions.

Harm OCD

Fear of causing harm to yourself or others, leading to avoidance or checking behaviors. Exposure and response prevention helps you face these fears without performing safety behaviors.

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What Makes My ERP Approach Different

My practice combines evidence-based ERP therapy with queer and transgender centered-care. Together, we’ll separate the OCD thoughts from your true self and help you begin your own intuition.

I also understand the intersection of OCD with:

  • Eating disorders and body image concerns

  • Gender dysphoria and transition

  • Sexuality and gender identity

  • Trauma and attachment wounds

  • Neurodivergence and sensory needs

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Is ERP Therapy Right for You?

ERP therapy can help you…

  • Manage your anxious thoughts instead of feeling overwhelmed by them.

  • Build new skills to cope with OCD flair ups when life gets stressful. 

  • Tune out anxiety so you can feel more present at work and your creative projects.

  • Feel more connected to your partner and at ease in your relationships.

  • Trust your own judgement rather than question it. 

  • Be more flexible with last minute changes in your routine. 

  • Look forward to trips and vacations, rather than dread them.

ERP helps you move through your anxiety instead of running from it

Together, let’s break the cycle of OCD and see a brighter future.

In Person Therapy in Philadelphia, PA