Transform your life through understanding your unconscious mind
Psychodynamic Therapy in Philadelphia & Online Across PA
Do you find yourself repeating the same mistakes over and over again?
That on-again, off-again relationship you keep returning to isn’t working for you anymore. You have moments of clarity, but you still find yourself hoping that this time will be different. Maybe they’ve finally changed. Maybe this time you’ll feel the connection you’ve been longing for.
But you keep ending up in the same place: unfulfilled and more lonely than ever.
What is psychodynamic therapy?
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Psychodynamic Therapy focuses on helping you understand how past experiences shape how you relate to others.
Together, we look at patterns that happen outside your awareness and bring them into the light so you can make more intentional choices. Rather than focusing only on the present, we explore why certain patterns in your life started in the first place.
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Psychodynamic therapy sessions are either 60 minutes or 90 minutes long.
As a licensed therapist, I ask you questions about your relationships, family, career, and anything that is important to you. I’ll guide you to notice the feelings you’re having during these conversations, which will become valuable information on what needs to change. Together, we’ll make connections between your past experiences and the current struggles you’re having in your life.
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Psychodynamic therapy can help you feel more freedom and peace with who you are. It doesn’t erase the past, but it can help you feel less controlled by it. By breaking old patterns, you’ll have more energy and space to experience life to the fullest. Your relationships with partners, friends, and co-workers may feel more rewarding.
Like driving a car, sometimes we need to check the rearview mirror to get to our destination.
Learning from our past helps us find freedom to live the life we want in the present.
Is psychodynamic therapy right for you?
Psychodynamic therapy is a good fit for you if you…
Find yourself repeating relationship patterns despite wanting change
Struggle with perfectionism, people-pleasing, or chronic self-doubt
Feel disconnected from your emotions or overwhelmed by feelings you don't understand
Want to understand how your past influences your present
Seek deeper healing beyond just manging symptoms
Value self-reflection and are curious about your inner world
What we’ll work on
Psychodynamic therapy can help you…
Gravitate towards friends and partners who uplift you.
Handle your emotions rather than feeling overwhelmed by them.
Have a clearer sense of who you are and what you want.
Trust your own instincts rather than second-guessing yourself.
Make choices that are intentional, instead of reactive.
Feel more confident in your relationships and at work.
Psychodynamic Therapy for Eating Disorder Recovery and LGBTQ Individuals
For Eating Disorders and Body Image
Psychodynamic therapy can help you address the underlying patterns that are driving your struggles with food. Disordered eating can be the most disruptive to our relationships, which makes them especially important in your recovery journey. Learn more about eating disorder therapy.
For Identity and Relationship Patterns
Psychodynamic psychotherapy can help you understand recurring relationship patterns and struggles with self-worth. If you’re queer or trans, this might look like exploring how early experiences of rejection, family dynamics, and societal messages have shaped your sense of self. Learn more about LGBTQ-Affirming Therapy.
Art therapy and psychodynamic therapy both focus on helping you identify patterns outside of your awareness.
Art therapy uses the creative process to help you tap into emotions, thoughts, and experiences that you might not be able to access through talking. Many people are often surprised about what comes up in art therapy sessions. Making art has the ability to side-step the logic part of your brain and get to the emotional truth. If you’re looking to do deeper work, and have felt stuck in traditional talk therapy, art therapy may be a good fit.
Meaningful, lasting change is possible.
Together, let’s break the cycle and create something different.
FAQs
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Psychodynamic therapy is a form of talk therapy that explores how your unconscious mind, shaped by early experiences and past relationships, influences your current thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. In our sessions together, I help you uncover patterns that may be operating outside your awareness, allowing you to understand why you react, feel, and relate to others in certain ways. This deeper understanding creates the foundation for meaningful and lasting change.
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Psychodynamic therapy focuses on understanding the root causes of your struggles rather than only addressing surface symptoms. While some approaches concentrate primarily on changing current thoughts and behaviors, psychodynamic work explores the origins of these patterns. I find this approach especially valuable because it honors your full history and helps you develop insight that supports long term transformation.
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Psychodynamic therapy can be effective for a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, trauma, eating disorders, relationship difficulties, and struggles with identity and self worth. It is particularly helpful if you notice repeating patterns in your life, such as choosing similar types of relationships, struggling with perfectionism or people pleasing, or feeling stuck in ways you cannot fully explain.
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Psychodynamic therapy helps you explore the emotional roots of disordered eating, going beyond behaviors to understand what drives them. Together, we examine how early experiences, family dynamics, and internalized beliefs about your body and worth contribute to your relationship with food. This approach allows for deeper healing that addresses the underlying emotional needs your eating disorder may be trying to meet.
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Absolutely. Psychodynamic therapy provides a space to explore how your identity has been shaped by your experiences, including messages you received about gender, sexuality, and belonging. As a queer identified therapist with advanced training in gender affirming care, I use this approach to help you understand how past experiences may impact your current sense of self, relationships, and overall wellbeing.
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In our sessions, you can expect a warm, collaborative space where we explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences together. I may ask questions about your past, notice patterns in how you relate to yourself and others, and gently bring attention to themes that emerge over time. The pace is guided by what feels right for you, and our work together unfolds naturally as trust builds between us.
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The length of psychodynamic therapy varies depending on your unique goals and the depth of work you want to do. Because this approach focuses on understanding and transforming long standing patterns, it often unfolds over a longer period than brief, symptom focused treatments. I meet with clients weekly for one hour sessions, and together we regularly check in about your progress and what feels most helpful.
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Yes. I often integrate psychodynamic therapy with other modalities I offer, including Internal Family Systems, art therapy, and Exposure and Response Prevention when appropriate. This allows me to tailor our work to your specific needs and goals, drawing on different approaches as they serve your healing journey.
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Psychodynamic therapy may be a good fit if you are curious about the deeper roots of your struggles, notice patterns in your life you want to understand, or feel that previous approaches have not fully addressed your concerns. If you value self reflection and want a therapeutic relationship built on trust and exploration, this approach may resonate with you.
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Getting started is simple. You can book a free 20 minute phone consultation through my website to share what is bringing you to therapy and ask any questions you have. This conversation helps us both determine if we are a good fit. If you decide to move forward, we will schedule your first session and I will send you information to complete your intake paperwork through your client portal.
Why Choose Ruberti Counseling Services for Psychodynamic Therapy
As an LGBTQ-affirming therapist, I approach psychodynamic therapy by centering the needs of queer, trans, and non-binary individuals. I understand the exhaustion of having to educate your therapist about your identity or defend your existence.
While I’m a queer therapist, I also understand that my lived experience is different from yours. In our work together, I maintain awareness of how our identies impact our work together, and welcome feedback on whether my approach is working for you.
I work with individuals who are ready to go deeper and value understanding the "why" behind their struggles. Whether you're navigating gender transition, anxiety, or eating disorder recovery, I provide a nuanced approach to psychodynamic therapy.
For those who find that traditional talk therapy falls short, Ruberti Counseling Services offers a transformative, creative path to healing through Art Therapy. This experiential modality allows clients to externalize difficult emotions and visualize internal conflicts when words are difficult to find. By blending art-making with Internal Family Systems (IFS) and psychodynamic exploration, the practice helps clients uncover unconscious patterns and develop new tools for emotional regulation, making it an ideal choice for those seeking a more tactile and symbolic therapeutic experience.